In general Coaches are paid a lot of money to field a basketball team that wins. The view is a bit different than those who's job 1 is to mentor offspring. You can't alter the personality of a child you didn't raise their first 18 years, in only 1 or 2 years.
Look what some parents did with their time. Like
Chris Wright and Brian Roberts and hundreds of others that come through our U. Most did really well.
Then look at Robinson and Scott. As a coach you can try to mitigate that childish behavior to some degree to keep them on the court and on course to graduate. But you're not Houdini. Guys like that might get "coddled" a bit, but each case is different. Sometimes it doesn't work and you would have better luck making peace in the Middle East.
As a Coach you try to make good for all parties (sometimes it takes a longer leash), but in the end the U isn't a day care center.