Pat Kelsey has been rather open as to why he got out of coaching. I think one of the reasons he's been open about it is because he wants to be a role model and a resource for people who are dealing with similar issues. It's no secret. If you're not sure what happened or why he left then figuring things out probably just isn't your thing....
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